Somebody once told me, “Wala ‘yan sa tagal.” For once, the person had a good point. If the relationship was not built on a good foundation, it surely will not work. If it is not the one for you, it isn’t.
Love does not happen in an instant and it certainly is not measured by how long you’ve been together. It needs time and the right amount of trust, friendship and respect to truly grow.
I’m glad we took things slow and built a friendship that turned into this wonderful relationship. With only 3 years of being friends, and now, a year of love, I can say, it’s real. One year felt like a breeze. Yes, we had our fights but they were for the better. People who’ve seen us know what we have is genuine.
I had so many WHY questions then. Finally God gave an answer to all of them – You. Thank you for breaking my barrier, teaching me how to love myself, and for showing me the real thing. We may not have forever, but I know we have today and always. So cheers to us, Budz, for we found and built something truly remarkable. :)
Photo by Danee C.